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Tara is doing well and
improving daily.
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if you haven't already. See how you can HELP. Thank
You!.
Current Status Report
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July Status Reports
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September
28, 2004
2:00 pm
Time is slipping by and the updates to this site
are getting less frequent as Tara improves and is
adjusting to life outside the hospital. Tara
and Josh traveled to San Francisco last Friday to
attend a Giants baseball game. They are
becoming more active in the activities at
church. Tara continues to attend her therapy
sessions at the hospital.
Tara and Josh are working on the best way to say
Thank You to all of the people that have come to
this site and who have prayed for them and donated
time and money to help them. We hope to have
that ready here soon, along with a video of the
recent interview at their church.
This weekend the Moonlight Pond Tour that will benefit Tara's
Recovery Fund. Shanna and Chris
Schriner, owners of The
Pond Shack are have organized their annual
moonlight pond tour for this Friday and Saturday
evenings, October 1st and 2nd. This year
there are 19 ponds on the tour! They are
located in San Jose, Campbell, Los Gatos,
Milpitas, Saratoga, Mountain View and Redwood
City. Tickets for this wonderful and
enchanting evening are $15.00 and can be purchased
online at The
Pond Shack
or in person at The Pond Shack in Mountain View.
In
addition to the Pond Tour, a generous donor has
provided the Pond Shack with a Super Bowl XVI 49er
Team Signed Football which is being auctioned
on ebay. All proceeds from the
auction of the football will go to Tara's
Recovery Fund. The football is
signed by most of the team members of the San
Francisco 49's that year. We already have a
very generous reserve bid for the item that can be
viewed at Football
on ebay.
September
20, 2004
8:30 am
Tara continues to improve. She and Josh
participated in both services at Calvary
Church yesterday, as part of the
sermon. The sermon centered on having the
right perspective in life, and Tara and Josh now
have an opportunity to view life from a unique
perspective. The church did an excellent video
interview of Tara and Josh where they discussed
their impressions of what has happened to them and
how grateful they are to be alive. We will
try to make the video accessible through this
website in the next few days. Members of the
church's quilting guild presented Tara and Josh
with a beautiful quilt that symbolized the prayers
that are continuing to be said for their
recovery. We will let you know via
email if we can make the video of the interview
available for viewing.
September
17, 2004
8:30 am
Tara continues to improve. She continues to
attend her occupational and physical therapy
sessions. She is still in wait-list status
for out-patient speech therapy. While Tara's
language skills are good, speech therapy focuses
on other tasks like communication and computer
skills. While her progress thus far has been
remarkable, she is still in a recovery mode and
will be for quite some time.
September
11, 2004
6:00 am
Tara continues to improve. Her attitude
continues to be very positive and determined,
which is helping her recovery. She is often
recognized when she and Josh go places because of
the media coverage that her story has
received. People approach her and Josh and
offer their thanks and tell them that they are
continuing to pray for her recovery..
September
8, 2004
12:15 am
Tara continues to do well in her therapy sessions
and her strength and abilities are increasing
every day.
Not much more to report today, so lets diverge and tell someone else's story.
We
would like to say a very special thank you to
Jenny Jordan of Utah who has helped us with our
website and fundraising ideas. Jenny
contacted us via email a week after the accident
when we were first starting this website and
offered advise and many very good ideas. Her
help and assistance came at a time when we were
deep in grief, unsure of the future and grasping
to find ways to help.
Jenny and her husband Wes had needed to start a
website of her own last year after she was
diagnosed with leukemia. She also had no
medical insurance and when she approached doctors
and hospitals to find out how she could get
therapy she was basically told "tough luck,
go away" because they did not have any means
to pay. Faced with this reality, Jenny and
Wes decided that rather than have Jenny die, they
would raise the needed money by fundraising. They and many
of their friends worked very
diligently with firm resolve and raised the
$170,000 needed for her first course of
chemotherapy. Thankfully, the cancer went
into remission for awhile. Unfortunately,
Jenny has just been diagnosed this two weeks ago with
a brain tumor that will require
surgery. Even faced with this challenge and
disappointment, Jenny continues to call us and
offer her help to us. You can read about
Jenny at her website JennyJordan.net.
Tara and Josh and their families want to say THANK
YOU Jenny, for your help and assistance, and we
will pray for success in your upcoming surgery.
September
5, 2004
9:00 pm
We hope everyone is having an enjoyable Labor Day
weekend. There is not much special to
report. Tara and Josh have been settling
in. Tara and friends made a trip to the
local Ikea store yesterday to look at household
items. Tara is looking forward to going to
church today.
September
1, 2004
9:00 pm
Today is the 3 month anniversary of the accident
in Utah. There is nothing special to report
about Tara's progress today.
Last July 19th we announced that Shanna and Chris
Schriner, owners of The
Pond Shack are organizing their annual
moonlight pond tour which will benefit Tara's
Recovery Fund this year. The tour
will be October 1st and 2nd. Tickets
will go on sale tomorrow and we will have more
information for you about this wonderful and
enchanting evening.
August
31, 2004
8:00 am
We apologize for the two emails yesterday.
Tara and Josh decided yesterday morning to appear
on the CBS Early Show, but as the day wore on,
Tara become concerned about whether she could do
it, and then decided late in the day that she
should not at this time. While Tara has made
very large strides in her abilities these past few
weeks, she is still aware of and respects her
current limitations.
August
30, 2004
6:30 pm
Cancelled!!
The Early Show segment for tomorrow has
been cancelled. Tara is not feeling that she
can handle being on television at this time.
We apologize to all of her supporters for the
misinformation and to CBS News who worked very diligently to make this
happen, especially to Katherine Milofsky. As
reported
earlier, Tara and Josh have been trying to
establish a routine that will facilitate her
ongoing therapy, and at this time, things that are
out of the ordinary are stressful.
2:30
pm GOOD
NEWS!!!
You will be
able to see Tara and Josh interviewed on CBS's
Early
Show tomorrow morning, Tuesday, August
31st. The
segment featuring Tara and Josh will air sometime
between 8:15 am and 8:45 am with the targeted
start time being 8:30 am which will air on local
CBS stations across the country in each time zone.
CBS is sending a camera crew to Tara's
grandfather's home to film
Tara and Josh. The Early Show's anchor will interview them live from New York
City.
August 29, 2004
2:00
pm Tara attended church this morning
for the first time since the accident. She
and Josh went to Calvary
Church in Los Gatos, where
they net. Tara says it was wonderful to see
many of her friends and to have the ability to
thank all those that have supported her and prayed
for her recovery. Both Tara and Josh want to
volunteer their time to help with the High School
ministry at the church.
We want to acknowledge and thank Lindsay Jones who
mentioned us on her website. Lindsay and her
boyfriend Daniel Miller were involved in a car
accident on August 1st and is currently paralyzed
from the waist down. You can read here story
on her web page at www.caringbridge.com/ar/lindsayjones.
Please remember Lindsay in your prayers. CaringBridge.org
is a not-for-profit organization providing
the oldest, most widely used free online service
connecting patients to friends and families.
Tara and Josh are looking forward to returning to
a bit of normalcy and enjoying the private joys of newly married life. They have
been deprived of this simple pleasure by the
tragic accident, the long hospital stay, and the
media exposure of their story, including this
website. They want to and will continue to
tell their story because it has inspired so many
people, but would like to balance that with their
own needs. Because of this, we may update this website less frequently, and
transition to updating it only when there is
something important to report. If you have
already signed our guestbook
you will receive an email informing you of any
newsworthy events. As Tara and Josh
find time they may also update this website
themselves and your reporter up to now will become
less involved. Please continue to check back
as frequently as you wish, and we thank everyone
for their continued prayers and support.
August 28, 2004
8:00
am Tara visited her chiropractor yesterday - Dr.
Thomas Osborne at Discover
Chiropractic. Dr. Osborne has helped
Tara stay healthy for the past eight years.
Tara felt better after
getting adjusted for the first time since her body
was impacted so severely in the accident.
August 27, 2004
11:30
am Not much new to report this
morning. Tara
and Josh are settling into their new life.
They have received over 550 emails.and
guestbook
entries in the past few days. They are
trying spend time reading them.
There are may words of encouragement and
hope. There are also many that contain
stories of other people that have been or still
are in a coma. Several emails are from
parents or spouses of other coma patients who say
that Tara's story has given them renewed hope for
their loved one. There have also been
several generous donations to Tara's
Recovery Fund. Tara and Josh have
also received offers from more television shows to
tell their story.
August 26, 2004
6:00
am Tara
and Josh are settling into their new life.
Tara returns to Santa Clara Valley Medical Center
three times a week for therapies and
check-ups. Tara still has a long way
to go for a complete recovery, and she is
determined to work hard at it. Tara's father
took them to Tara's favorite Los Gatos restaurant,
Sushi on the Run, for a celebration dinner last
night.
August 25, 2004
1:00
pm We
are truly touched and blessed by the outpouring of
love we have received as a result of this
morning's interview. We have had over 400
emails and guestbook entries so far today and some
donations as well.
8:15
am Tara and Josh really enjoyed
doing the interview on ABC's
Good
Morning America show today. Here is
a link to the story Bride
Awakens: Newlywed Wakes from Six-Week Coma to
Discover She's Married. Tara and
Josh want to thank the entire staff at Good
Morning America for giving them the opportunity to
tell their story on national television, with
special thanks to Sabina Ghebremedhin for her
diligence and thoughtfulness.
6:00
am Thank you for visiting our site
and reading our updates. See the August 23rd
update below for an update on Tara's condition,
and the August 1st update below for a detailed
accounting of the accident. We would like to express our special thanks to all
of those that have donated to Tara's
Recovery Fund. Please sign our Guestbook
if you haven't already. Thanks to everyone who
have sent Tara and Josh messages of hope when signing her
guestbook or by
email.
August
24, 2004
2:15
pm GOOD
NEWS!!!
You will be
able to see Tara and Josh interviewed on ABC's
Good
Morning America show tomorrow morning,
Wednesday, August 25th. The
segment featuring Tara and Josh will air sometime
between 7:55 am and 8:20 am with the targeted
start time being 8:05am which will air on local
ABC stations across the country in each time zone.
ABC is sending a camera crew to San Jose to film
Tara and Josh. Anchor Robin Roberts will interview them live from New York
City.
9:00
am GOOD
NEWS!!!
Tara is
home and she walked out of the hospital
yesterday unassisted. Tara and
Josh had a relaxing evening last night
in their new home.
Readers in the San Francisco Bay Area might
wish to pick up a copy of today's San
Jose Mercury News. Reporter Yomi S.
Wronge and photographer Joanne Hoyoung
Lee of the
San Jose Mercury News did an excellent news article
with many photos on
Tara and Josh leaving the hospital titled "New
Memories Await Couple". Thank
you Yomi and Joanne!
Tara
and Josh gave a press conference as they
left the hospital. The local
network television and radio stations
were there to document the occasion.
Here are links to stories and
videos. Thank you to the reporters
and cameramen and photographers.
|
|
Mercury
New Photograph |
NBC11
- KNTV, San Jose
- Woman
Who Woke Up From Coma Returns Home
ABC7 - KGO-TV - San Jose - VIDEO
- Newlywed
Leaves Hospital After Six Week Coma
KSL5 -
Salt Lake City - Newlywed
Injured in Crash Released From Hospital
CBS5 - KPIX - San Francisco - VIDEO
- Newlywed
Survives Six Week Coma
KUTV-CBS - Salt
Lake Cty - VIDEO
- Newlywed
Injured in Utah Crash Released From the Hospital
August
23, 2004
4:30
pm GOOD
NEWS!!!
Tara has
been discharged from Santa Clara Valley Medical
Center (SCVMC). Look for her
story and an interview with Tara and Josh
on your local nightly news stations tonight as all
the major media covered her discharge and spoke
with her.
What a
wonderful belated three-month wedding anniversary
present to the couple. Of the 93 days since
they married, Tara has been hospitalized for the
entire time but 10 days. She spent half the
time she was hospitalized in a coma. She
spent a little over a month at the University of
Utah Hospital and then was transferred by air
ambulance to SCVMC in San Jose, CA.
After spending 6 weeks in a coma, Tara said her
first words on July 9th and took her first steps
on August 2nd. She has been determined since
she woke from her coma to meet her discharge goals
and be discharged from the hospital. Tara
has been actively participating in both physical,
speech and occupational therapies and will
continue to do so on an out-patient basis.
Tara suffers from some short term memory
loss. She still does not remember her
wedding, college graduation and many other events
that preceded the accident. She does,
however, have excellent recall for people and
facts, her speech is excellent and her walking
ability is getting stronger every day. Tara
has many scars from the cuts, bruises and burns
she suffered. She will be wearing a special
pressure mask for the next nine months for the
burns on her forehead
We would like to express our special thanks to all
of those that have donated to Tara's
Recovery Fund. Tara and Josh had no
medical insurance at the time of the accident.
While it appears that Tara may make a full
recovery, at this time it is still unknown what
the total costs of this accident will be. We
feel extremely blessed that Tara is doing so well
at this time. So far she has recovered
further and faster than anyone's expectations.
This is an affidavit of her will and
determination, absolutely the best medical care
and the power of having thousands of people
praying for her. Thanks to everyone who
have sent Tara messages of hope when signing her guestbook.
6:00
am Tara and Josh had a wonderful
time on their "date" yesterday.
Tara said that is was great to get out of the
hospital and have a bit of a "normal"
life for awhile. They went to the Spiderman
2 movie and dinner at Outback.
August
22, 2004
9:00
am Today is Tara and Josh's three
month wedding anniversary. Tara has an
eight-hour day pass to leave the hospital so that
she and Josh can go on an anniversary date.
They plan on going to dinner and a movie.
Here are a few more wedding photos to celebrate
their anniversary.
Yesterday afternoon, a Japanese woman named
Chizuru who has been following the website visited
Tara. When Chizuru first signed Tara's guestbook
we added what she said to out comments
page:
My
name, Chizuru, means "1000 cranes" in
Japanese, and that is a symbol of "peace and
recovery". In Japan, we make 1000 paper
cranes to wish a sick person get well. I
personally do not know her but I hope she will
recover soon.
Chizuru has made over 400 paper cranes for Tara so
far and said a prayer for her with each one.
Tara and Josh and their families are grateful for
all those that have prayed for Tara's
recovery. Tara's rapid recovery is a
testament to Tara's determination, the power of
prayer, and the skills of her medical providers..
August
21, 2004
9:00
am Nothing new to report this
morning. Tara is doing fine, and her
physicians say that her recovery has been
remarkable. We still do not have a
definitive discharge date yet. It seems that
there are no openings in the out-patient
occupational therapy sessions, but Tara is already
scheduled for in-patient occupational
therapy. The hospital staff is working to
resolve this.
Josh has been busy trying to organize the cottage
to bring Tara home to.
Tomorrow is their three month wedding anniversary,
and Tara has a day pass to get out of the
hospital. So, Tara and Josh are going
on a date to celebrate their anniversary. We
hope you all have a wonderful weekend.
August
20, 2004
9:15
am On August 12th, Tara took her
first outing outside the hospital to a concert in
her hometown of Los Gatos. NBC11 news
interviewed her and Josh and have posted a video
of Tara on their website titled Woman
In Good Spirits After Awakening From Coma.
Click on Tara's picture to view the video.
You may have to hold your Control key while doing
so to bypass your pop-up blocker. Thank you
to NBC11 for providing such good coverage of
Tara's situation!
6:00
am Tara is really looking forward to
being discharged. Yesterday, Josh and family
and friends moved their belongings into the
cottage in back of Tara's grandfather's house
where Tara and Josh will be living. Tara
will still have out-patient rehab three times a
week. They had planned to set up their new
married life in Colorado, but will be doing it
here in California for awhile.. One of
Tara's discharge goals was to walk out of the
hospital and she is walking so well now that she
can do that. This is only a few weeks after
she took her first steps.
August
19, 2004
9:45
am TaraJosh reader Yvonne Linton
sent this email today:
Dear
Tara,
I'm so glad your recovery has gone so well. You
are an Olympic champion in my book. Last night an
American gymnast, Paul Hamm, dropped from first
place to 12th after a fall on the vault landing.
He bounced back to win the gold medal in the men's
all around competition, shocking everyone. This
reminds me of your amazing comeback.
After a few struggles at home this year, I look to
what you have done (and God!!) in a short time and
can't help but feel inspired. You remind me to
keep perspective and to remain thankful and
optimistic. After my faith was rocked over
situations I had hoped and prayed for, your
recovery renews my faith and belief in what is
good and what is God. You and Josh (and your
father in his web entries!) have shown goodness
and hope in the midst of a tough situation. I
am beginning to think you must be a pretty tough
competitor also and I feel sorry for the people
you used to play basketball against. I hope you
can shoot baskets again and do many more things,
one hoop at a time. Congratulations on your
pending hospital departure and keep up the great
work in rehab!!
Yvonne Linton
6:15
am Tara had good therapy
sessions yesterday. She says to post the
following here from her: Her physicians are
discussing the possibility of discharging her
earlier than the August 26th date.
Tara says to post this on the website from
her:
"Hi everyone. Thanks so much for
visiting this website and thank you for your
prayers and support. I know that it is
everyone's prayers that have helped to let me
recover so quickly. I have been reading some
of your emails and hope to be able to answer some
of them soon. Thank you, everybody!"
August
18, 2004
6:00
am Josh arrived home from his trip
last night, safe and sound. Both Tara and he
had BIG smiles on their faces when they saw each
other after the 4 day separation. Tara is
still on track to be discharged on the 26th,
although she said tonight that the doctors might
even send her home a few days earlier.
We have received several emails from their friends
and church members in Colorado who expressed how
nice it was to see Josh.
We are still trying to schedule Tara and Josh's
appearance on Good Morning America which should
happen within the next week. Keep checking
this status page and we will also send out an
email once the segment is confirmed. We
apologize for the postponement last week.
Tara and Josh got pre-empted by Hurricane Charley.
Yesterday the golf tournament had
36 golfers, including Tara's uncle Doug from
Arizona and Steve Leonard who drove all the way
from Utah. It was a perfect day for
golf. Early estimates are that the
tournament brought in over $5,000 for Tara's
Recovery Fund. Mike Masuda,
the Sports
& Recreation Ministry Director of Calvary
Church
who organized the event wrote the following email.
Hi John,
I just wanted to be sure to give you a more
complete list of those
that helped. I so appreciate them!!!
Melissa Hammond - helped hang posters downtown
with Katy West and also spent
an entire Saturday putting flyers on cars in the
parking lots of Los
Gatos Blvd. She was up until past midnight helping
organize prizes and stuffing tee prize bags. She
and Alicia Price were a big help with the raffle
set-up yesterday, while I enjoyed the day of golf.
Barbara Nicewonger - helped get raffle gifts and
prizes. Then she and her daughter, Ariana
Nicewonger came and helped with registration the
day of the tournament.
Karuss Edwards, Lauren
McElhatton, Teri Lyall, Sasha DeBriere, Matt
Cunningham (some of the bridal party) helped with
the raffle.
Christine Lavazza of Mary
Kay - Sponsored a gift as well as came out in
support and to take pictures for the Los Gatos
Weekly.
The Steve Glickman, the
mayor of Los Gatos had some great suggestions for
contacts and the Vice Mayor, Mike Wasserman made
the time to play in the tournament.
Ronee Nassi, Executive
Director of the Los Gatos Chamber of Commerce
emailed the Los Gatos businesses.
And thanks go to you
also, John, for placing the info on the website!!
Thank you to everyone
involved!
God Bless, Miki
And of course, thank you to all the golfers that
participated and the sponsors that donated and a
very special thank you to Miki for organizing the
tournament.
August
17, 2004
6:00
am Yesterday, Josh and Darren
journeyed from Colorado to Wendover, Utah, on the
border of Nevada, on their trip back to California
with Tara and Josh's belongings. Originally,
Tara and Josh were going to set up their married
life in Colorado where Josh was a youth minister
at
Summit Community Church in Highlands Ranch.
The accident in Utah, when they were returning
from their honeymoon, took their lives on an
unexpected detour.
When Tara is discharged from the hospital next
week she will still continue to have out-patient
therapies three days a week.
An longtime friend of Tara's visited her today,
Lauren Malachek and her mother Karla. Lauren
and Tara used to live only 5 doors apart in Los
Gatos. Tara was thrilled to see her and
surprised to find out that Lauren is attending the
University of Colorado in Boulder. Tara and
Lauren had only been living about 10 miles apart
and did not know it.
August
16, 2004
6:00
am Today, Tara begins what may be
her last full week at the hospital. Her
scheduled discharge date is August 26th.
Josh was able to go to church yesterday at the
Summit Community Church in Highlands Ranch,
Colorado where he was a youth minister. In
the afternoon a party was given where he was able
to spend time with friends and the youths that he
counseled and ministered. The U-haul is
loaded and so this morning Josh and Darren will
begin the drive back to California. They
expect to arrive in California tomorrow evening.
Today
is the at the Santa Teresa Golf
Course,
Tee off times begin at 10am. Good luck to
all the golfers. Have a wonderful time.
.
August
15, 2004
2:00
am Tara had a good day
yesterday. It is wonderful to see her
progress, and it is apparent every day that she is
improving. Yesterday she read many of the
thousands of emails and guestbook entries that she
and Josh have received from this website.
Tara expressed how wonderful it felt to have so
many people sending her love and prayers.
She says that it is everyone's prayers that have
helped her recover so swiftly.
Tara made a phone call yesterday to Andy Finlay,
the gentleman from Utah that used his pickup truck
at the scene of the accident to separate Tara's
car from the other burning vehicle (see August 1st
status update). Andy saved Tara's life by
his action and Tara thanked him for it. They
had a very nice talk and Tara expressed that she
hopes to meet Andy in person someday soon.
Occupational Therapy Smiling
in her burn pressure mask
Tara has occupational therapy every day that
focuses on different "every day" life
tasks. Yesterday they went to the work shop
and did some crafts.
In the photos above you will see that Tara is
wearing a "burn pressure mask". Tara
had second and third degree burns on her forehead,
and had a skin graft performed at the University
of Utah Hospital. When skin is burned,
collagen in the skin reforms as bundles instead of
returning back to the original form of parallel
lines. A pressure mask helps to flatten burn
scar tissue as skin heals. The mask provides
precise pressure over the burn scars so that the
scars will stay flat as they're healing, and
they'll stay soft as they're healing,
The mask is not easy
to wear, but it will help to minimize scarring.
Pressure masks are custom fitted and are made to
conform to a patient's normal body contours, thus
limiting scar formation. When wearing a
facial mask, burn patients must wear the mask for
24 hours a day. Patients are advised to only take
off the mask while showering and only leave it off
for up to 25 minutes after they shower. Wearing a
facial burn mask 24 hours a day applies constant
pressure on scars and makes them more pliable,
less red and less noticeable. Tara has
adjusted very well to wearing her mask, although
she says that it is difficult to fall asleep with
it on.
Don't
forget the
tomorrow. Tee off times begin at 10am for
the Golf Tournament at the Santa Teresa Golf
Course,
August
14, 2004
8:30
am Tara had a very good day
yesterday. She is getting better at
walking every day. She is determined that
when she leaves the hospital that she will walk
out unassisted. Tara has been calling it
"release day," and the nurses remind her
that it's not a prison. So now she is
calling it departure day. Tara's tentative
departure day is August 26th.
Josh has left town on an adventure for a few
days. He and his friend Darren are flying to
Colorado today where they will pack Tara and
Josh's belongings into a U-Haul truck and will
drive it back to California. A special thank
you to their friends in Colorado that will see
them and help them. Good luck to Josh
on his trip.
There are over 40 golfers signed up to participate
in the
Golf Tournament
this Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
Course, in San Jose, California. If
you would like to participate you can still do so
by showing up at the golf course. Tee off
times begin at 10am. Call Miki Masuda at
408-828-8514 for details and to reserve a slot
August
13, 2004
6:00
am Tara had a very good day
yesterday. She did well with her
therapies. We apologize to any of you that
did not get the message that the Good Morning
America segment had been postponed if you got up
early to watch it. We
will keep you posted via a new e as to when it
will be rescheduled. It will probably be
Wednesday or Thursday of next week..
August
12, 2004
10:00
am POSTPONED!!
The Good Morning America segment for tomorrow has
been postponed until some time next week. We
will keep you posted via a new email. The
postponement is due to the impending storms
hitting the east coast.
6:00
am Tara had two "off
campus" adventures yesterday. She left
the hospital and went to lunch at a Japanese
restaurant near the hospital and in the evening
went with four other head injury patients to a
"Jazz in the Plaza" concert in her
hometown of Los Gatos. She says that it was
great to get out and "feel normal".
Readers in the San Francisco Bay Area might
wish to pick up a copy of today's San
Jose Mercury News. Reporter Connie Skipitares of the
San Jose Mercury News did another excellent news article on
Tara and Josh titled "Accident
victim has first outing". Thanks again Connie!
Tara's visit to the concert was covered by
reporter Ethan Harp of NBC11-KNTV
news during their 11pm broadcast. Special
thanks to Ethan and his cameraman.
Happy Couple - August
11th
Outing in the Park
Don't
forget the next
that will take place on Monday, August 16th.
The Golf Tournament will be
held on Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
Course, in San Jose, California. If
you would like
more information please e-mail Miki Masuda at MMasuda@calvarylg.com
or phone Miki at 408-356-5126, x244.
Please tell your avid golfer friends about
it and we still need some additional corporate sponsors to sponsor holes
for the tournament.
August
11, 2004
3:30
pm Tara walked a lot more today and
also stood in place and shot some basketball
hoops. Unfortunately, she was disappointed
that she did not make her shots. Her arm strength still needs a
lot of work.
6:00
am Tara has a good day
yesterday. Typical hard work at her
therapies. Today she might go on a field
trip with a few other patients to get out of the
hospital for the first time. We will be
sending out an email today about Tara's upcoming
TV appearance this coming Friday morning,
currently scheduled for between 7am and 8am
on ABC's Good
Morning America show. Please sign our Guestbook
if you haven't already to be sure that you are on
Tara's email list.
August
10, 2004
6:00
am Tara has a good day
yesterday. She is walking more and doing
better at it. Several weeks ago Tara was
fitted for a special pressure mask which will help
the burns on her forehead heal with less
scarring. The mask arrived yesterday.
In order to put pressure on her forehead, it
covers much of her face. She will wear it
most of the time for the next nine months.
Here is a special treat for our readers.
Here are some recent
photos of Tara. Enjoy her smile!
You will be able to see Tara and Josh on live
television this coming Friday morning (early) on ABC's Good
Morning America show. ABC is sending
a camera crew to the hospital to interview Tara
and Josh on the show. We will keep
you posted here as to the possible time
slot.
August
9, 2004
7:15
am Tara has a good day
yesterday. A day off from therapies.
Tara made a comment about how frustrating it was to
have to learn to walk again, when she used to do
runway walking when she modeled. Tara
modeled from age 13 to age 16. Her 6'3"
stature made it difficult to get some assignments,
but she enjoyed the time she did it and was very
good doing the runway walk. Here is a link
to some of Tara's modeling
photos. Tara has several times made
the comment that it's a good thing that she is not
modeling any longer because she is no longer
attractive. We have assured her that despite
the burn scars on her forehead and other scars
that she is just as beautiful as ever. Tara
is pleased that she "schooled" the
coma. This
week begins another week of intense therapy.
Don't forget the Golf Tournament on Monday, August 16th
which is only a week away now.
August
8, 2004
8:30
am Sunday morning, day of
rest. Sunday's are "free"
days for Tara. She has no therapy sessions
scheduled. Josh leaves to attend
church. It is one of the few times when he
is away from Tara's side. Tara is looking
forward to being discharged from the hospital so
that she can attend church again. Tara's dad
likes the "one on one" time he has with
Tara on Sunday mornings. Nothing new to
report this morning. Have a great day
everyone! .
August
7, 2004
6:00
pm A physician came in on weekend
duty today to see Tara. He had not seen her
for two weeks and was amazed at her
progress. It is amazing to witness. It
is like seeing someone be reborn. A few
weeks ago she could hardly move, now in physical
therapy she is walking, not long purposeful
strides, but tentative slow steps, yet walking
nonetheless. A week ago she had a shower in
a special gurney. Today she took a shower in
a special chair. She told the physician
today that she is determined to get out of the
hospital as soon as possible.
10:00
am Tara is doing well and had a good
day in with her therapies yesterday. Tara
talks very well and her speech is excellent.
She is still fairly confused about many things and
her short term memory is not consistent.
This should improve over time. Many brain
injury patients must rely on day timers to help
them with their daily tasks.
August
6, 2004
6:00
am Tara walked some more several
times yesterday. She is getting more confident
with it, and going a bit further each time
Her new knee brace is working much better as it is
lighter and smaller. Tara is still having
difficulties with her short-term memory. The
burns on her cheeks, below her eyes, are healing
well and the burn across her forehead is making
good progress. We want to thank the many
friends that volunteered several weeks ago to sit
with Tara when we were concerned about her
scratching at her wounds. It turned out that
Tara got past that stage fairly quickly.
The
therapists in the Traumatic
Brain Injury Rehabilitation Program are
outstanding! They have Tara doing many
different types of therapies and they are adept at
knowing how far they can "push" her to
get results. Tara is participating in her
therapies whole heartedly because she is looking
forward to the day that she can be
discharged. Josh is a tremendous support and
inspiration for Tara during her sessions.
She has physical, speech and occupational therapy
everyday. It was only little over a month
ago when we were concerned about whether Tara
would be able to be admitted to a Rehab Center
program because the requirement was that she had
to be able to actively participate in therapy for 3 hours a
day. Tara's will and determination have
shown us that our fears were unfounded.
Media Alert !!! - One week from today,
Tara and Josh may be on ABC's Good
Morning America show. We will keep
you posted here as to the possible time
slot. All of our readers will be able to
tune in and see Tara on live TV..
Don't
forget the next
that will take place on Monday, August 16th.
The Golf Tournament will be
held on Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
Course, in San Jose, California. If
you would like
more information please e-mail Miki Masuda at MMasuda@calvarylg.com
or phone Miki at 408-356-5126, x244.
Please tell you avid golfer friends about
it and we still need some additional corporate sponsors to sponsor holes
for the tournament.
Side note: Tara's brother Chris and father
John are seeking a one or two bedroom rental in
the south bay area. If you know of one,
please let them know via Email
with a subject line of Rental. Thank you!
August
5, 2004
6:00
am GOOD
NEWS!!!
No new
update this morning. We are still too happy
that Tara walked yesterday!
General housekeeping: The status
page has been getting larger, and taking more time
to download for our dial-up readers, so we have
broken the status into monthly reports. You
can click on the links at the top or bottom of the
page if you wish to review status reports from
previous months. Please sign our GUESTBOOK
if you haven't already. See how you can HELP. Thank
You!
August
4, 2004
4:00
pm GOOD
NEWS!!!
Tara walked
approximately 50 feet in a hallway today, with her
physical therapist in front of her to help in case
she needed assistance. Tara did great!
Good job Tara!
6:00
am Tara had a good day
yesterday. She had her normal therapy
sessions and then participated in the filming of a
video for the hospital to document activities in
the rehab center. She did a great job as she
was interviewed with her physical therapist and
her attending physician. Tara also received
a newer and smaller knee brace. She needs
the brace due to the damage done to her left knee
from the accident. Her older brace rubbed on
the donor site on her thigh where the skin graft
for the burn on her forehead came from. The
fact that both knees were injured in the accident
is slowing Tara's progress towards being able to
walk.
The totals are in for the Car Wash and Bake Sale that was
held at Calvary Church a week ago. The
tournament was able to raise $3,101.
for Tara's
Recovery Fund. Once again, a very special thanks goes to Melissa Hammond
who is a member of the High School Group at
Calvary Church of Los Gatos for organizing the car wash and bake sale. Thank
you also for all the volunteers who washed cars
and baked delicious goodies, and thank you to all
those who donated and now have cleaner cars and
ate all the baked goodies.
August
3, 2004
10:00
am There are some amazing stories on
the Rehab floor at Valley Medical. Each of
the patients here has one. One in
particular is Kathleen
Davey, who is in a room just three doors
down the hall from Tara. Kathleen had a
cardiac arrest on Sat. morning, January 24, around
10 a.m. Her 6–year-old daughter called
911. Police arrived at the house within
around 3 minutes of the call and administered
CPR. An EMT unit then arrived and revived
her heart with a defibrillator and rushed her to
Valley Medical Center in San Jose. Kathleen
has been in a coma since. Please take a
moment to click on Kathleen's
website and say a prayer for Kathleen's
recovery, and for her husband Mike and daughters
Samantha and Rachel..
6:00
am Tara had a good day
yesterday. When asked what she did, she said
that she went swimming and played badminton.
In reality, she played some ping-pong from her
wheelchair. The confusion associated with
head injuries often persists for a long time. Tara also
had several visitors yesterday from her church and
high school, including Julie, Alexia, Amanda and
Ashley.
Side note: Tara's brother Chris and father
John are seeking a one or two bedroom rental in
the south bay area. If you know of one,
please let them know via Email
with a subject line of Rental. Thank you!
August
2, 2004
6:30
am Tara had a good day
yesterday. Her nurse Sandra, who has been
providing head injury rehab for 18 years, says
that Tara is making very good progress. Tara
did not have any therapy sessions, as Sunday is a
day of rest at the hospital. Her father once
again explained what happened in the accident (see
yesterday's "anniversary" status) and
then took her for a long ride in her wheelchair
outside the hospital, however, by evening Tara did
not remember that he had visited. It is
quite common for head injury patients to have
difficulty with short-term memory. Tara also
had several visitors yesterday afternoon.
The totals are in for the Golf Tournament that was
held in Colorado two weeks ago. The
tournament was able to raise $12,328. for Tara's
Recovery Fund. Once again, a very
special thanks to organizers Terri and Tim Walsh,
the Summit Community Church of Highlands Ranch,
Colorado, everyone who volunteered their help and
everyone who participated.
Don't
forget the next
that will take place 2 weeks from today.
Calvary
Church in Los Gatos has
organized a Golf Tournament
here in Silly.com Valley in order to raise funds for Tara's expenses.
The Golf Tournament will be
held on Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
Course, in San Jose, California. If
you would like
more information please e-mail Miki Masuda at MMasuda@calvarylg.com
or phone Miki at 408-356-5126, x244.
We need some additional corporate sponsors to sponsor holes
for the tournament, so please ask your management
at work if they would be willing to sponsor a hole
and have them give Miki a call. Miki hopes
to find a corporate sponsor for each hole so there
can be a sign at each hole.
August
1, 2004
12:30
am Today is the two-month
anniversary of the tragic accident on Interstate
15 just south of Salt Lake City. Tara and
Josh were driving home to their new married life
in Colorado, after being married ten days before
on May 22nd at in
California. Tara was driving southbound in a
construction zone in their Suzuki Grand Vitara
SUV, having just bypassed the city. At the
same time, Thad Goodman from Taylorsville, Utah
was driving his Chevrolet Cavalier northbound on
his way home to have lunch with his wife Susan,
and their two girls, Hannah, 2 1/2, and Ivy to celebrate
Ivy's 6-month birthday.
For a yet unknown reason, at
about 1pm, Thad lost control of his car, swerved
several times and then rolled across the center
median of the highway into the southbound
lane. His car was upside down and airborne
when it struck Tara and Josh's car. Click
here to see the accident
diagram by the Utah Highway Patrol.
Thad was killed on impact and his car exploded
creating an inferno with 15 foot flames. The
cars spun and came to a stop with Thad's
upside-down burning Calvalier
pressed against the passenger side of the Suzuki, trapping Josh in the car. Josh could not get
out through the door. He saw that Tara was
unconscious and pinned in her seat. Josh
punched his way through the partially cracked
windshield, fracturing his knuckle, and climbed through the small
opening. He was assisted out of the crushed
vehicle by 18 year old Brad Beckstrom, one of the
witnesses to the accident. He cried:
"My wife, my wife is trapped." The
wind was blowing the flames from the burning
vehicle into Tara's car which also ignited.
Hollywood tells us to run away from a burning
vehicle, but several heroic witnesses from other vehicles
came to Tara's aid, running towards the fire in
order to help.
Linden Curry stopped his 26-wheel, two-tank gas
hauler just in time to avoid careening into the
crash. He took two fire extinguishers from
his rig and handed one to Brad who used it on the
Suzuki while Linden used the other on the
Cavalier. Jeremiah Richards used the water
from his cement truck to try to dose the flames.
Realizing that the fire would soon kill Tara, Andy
Finlay from Herriman, Utah jumped into his new
pick-up truck and drove into the flames to
separate Tara's car from the other burning
vehicle. At first, the Suzuki would not
move, so Andy backed up and then lightly rammed it and was
able to move it about 12 feet away. The
witnesses continued to extinguish the fire on the
Suzuki and then worked together to help Tara until
the fire department rescue and paramedic teams
arrived.
The teams had to cut the Suzuki
apart in order to extricate Tara who was then
flown by emergency helicopter to the University of
Utah Hospital. Josh was taken by ambulance
to the hospital where he was treated for a broken
collarbone, the fractured knuckle in his hand and
multiple bruises. Tara suffered a head
injury, burns to her face, a torn diaphragm,
lacerated spleen and kidney, fractured toe, deep
lacerations to both of her knees, and multiple
cuts and bruises. Tara remained in a coma
for 6 weeks, and is now making a remarkable
recovery.
Tara, Josh, their families and friends want to
once again thank those that saved Tara and Josh's
lives. Thank you Andy, Brad, Linden and
Jeremiah. Thank you to all the Troopers,
Fireman and Paramedics. Thank you to the
physicians and nurses. Thank you to all who
have prayed and all who have generously given
financial donations. Tara is aware of what happened, is
grateful to be alive, and hopes to meet her
rescuers some day..
If any there were other witnesses to the accident,
we would very much like to hear from them by emailing
us or signing our guestbook.
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