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                              September
                              28, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              2:00 pm 
                              Time is slipping by and the updates to this site
                              are getting less frequent as Tara improves and is
                              adjusting to life outside the hospital.  Tara
                              and Josh traveled to San Francisco last Friday to
                              attend a Giants baseball game.  They are
                              becoming more active in the activities at
                              church.  Tara continues to attend her therapy
                              sessions at the hospital. 
                               
                              Tara and Josh are working on the best way to say
                              Thank You to all of the people that have come to
                              this site and who have prayed for them and donated
                              time and money to help them.  We hope to have
                              that ready here soon, along with a video of the
                              recent interview at their church. 
                               
                              This weekend the Moonlight Pond Tour that will benefit Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  Shanna and Chris
                              Schriner, owners of The
                              Pond Shack are have organized their annual
                              moonlight pond tour for this Friday and Saturday
                              evenings, October 1st and 2nd.  This year
                              there are 19 ponds on the tour!  They are
                              located in San Jose, Campbell, Los Gatos,
                              Milpitas, Saratoga, Mountain View and Redwood
                              City.  Tickets for this wonderful and
                              enchanting evening are $15.00 and can be purchased
                              online at  The
                              Pond Shack
                              or in person at The Pond Shack in Mountain View. 
                                 
                              In
                              addition to the Pond Tour, a generous donor has
                              provided the Pond Shack with a Super Bowl XVI 49er
                              Team Signed Football which is being auctioned
                              on ebay.  All proceeds from the
                              auction of the football will go to Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  The football is
                              signed by most of the team members of the San
                              Francisco 49's that year.  We already have a
                              very generous reserve bid for the item that can be
                              viewed at Football
                              on ebay. 
                              
                               
                              September
                              20, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              8:30 am 
                              Tara continues to improve.  She and Josh
                              participated in both services at Calvary
                              Church yesterday, as part of the
                              sermon.  The sermon centered on having the
                              right perspective in life, and Tara and Josh now
                              have an opportunity to view life from a unique
                              perspective.  The church did an excellent video
                              interview of Tara and Josh where they discussed
                              their impressions of what has happened to them and
                              how grateful they are to be alive.  We will
                              try to make the video accessible through this
                              website in the next few days.  Members of the
                              church's quilting guild presented Tara and Josh
                              with a beautiful quilt that symbolized the prayers
                              that are continuing to be said for their
                              recovery.   We will let you know via
                              email if we can make the video of the interview
                              available for viewing. 
                               
                              September
                              17, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              8:30 am 
                              Tara continues to improve.  She continues to
                              attend her occupational and physical therapy
                              sessions.  She is still in wait-list status
                              for out-patient speech therapy.  While Tara's
                              language skills are good, speech therapy focuses
                              on other tasks like communication and computer
                              skills.  While her progress thus far has been
                              remarkable, she is still in a recovery mode and
                              will be for quite some time. 
                               
                              September
                              11, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              6:00 am 
                              Tara continues to improve.  Her attitude
                              continues to be very positive and determined,
                              which is helping her recovery.  She is often
                              recognized when she and Josh go places because of
                              the media coverage that her story has
                              received.  People approach her and Josh and
                              offer their thanks and tell them that they are
                              continuing to pray for her recovery.. 
                               
                              September
                              8, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              12:15 am 
                              Tara continues to do well in her therapy sessions
                              and her strength and abilities are increasing
                              every day. 
                               
                              Not much more to report today, so lets diverge and tell someone else's story.
                               
                              We
                              would like to say a very special thank you to
                              Jenny Jordan of Utah who has helped us with our
                              website and fundraising ideas.  Jenny
                              contacted us via email a week after the accident
                              when we were first starting this website and
                              offered advise and many very good ideas.  Her
                              help and assistance came at a time when we were
                              deep in grief, unsure of the future and grasping
                              to find ways to help. 
                               
                              Jenny and her husband Wes had needed to start a
                              website of her own last year after she was
                              diagnosed with leukemia.  She also had no
                              medical insurance and when she approached doctors
                              and hospitals to find out how she could get
                              therapy she was basically told "tough luck,
                              go away" because they did not have any means
                              to pay.  Faced with this reality, Jenny and
                              Wes decided that rather than have Jenny die, they
                              would raise the needed money by fundraising.  They and many
                              of their friends worked very
                              diligently with firm resolve and raised the
                              $170,000 needed for her first course of
                              chemotherapy.  Thankfully, the cancer went
                              into remission for awhile.  Unfortunately,
                              Jenny has just been diagnosed this two weeks ago with
                              a brain tumor that will require
                              surgery.  Even faced with this challenge and
                              disappointment, Jenny continues to call us and
                              offer her help to us.  You can read about
                              Jenny at her website JennyJordan.net. 
                              Tara and Josh and their families want to say THANK
                              YOU Jenny, for your help and assistance, and we
                              will pray for success in your upcoming surgery. 
                               
                              September
                              5, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              9:00 pm 
                              We hope everyone is having an enjoyable Labor Day
                              weekend.  There is not much special to
                              report.  Tara and Josh have been settling
                              in.  Tara and friends made a trip to the
                              local Ikea store yesterday to look at household
                              items.  Tara is looking forward to going to
                              church today. 
                               
                              September
                              1, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              9:00 pm 
                              Today is the 3 month anniversary of the accident
                              in Utah.  There is nothing special to report
                              about Tara's progress today. 
                               
                              Last July 19th we announced that Shanna and Chris
                              Schriner, owners of The
                              Pond Shack are organizing their annual
                              moonlight pond tour which will benefit Tara's
                              Recovery Fund this year.  The tour
                              will be October 1st and 2nd.  Tickets
                              will go on sale tomorrow and we will have more
                              information for you about this wonderful and
                              enchanting evening. 
                                 
                              August
                              31, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              8:00 am 
                              We apologize for the two emails yesterday. 
                              Tara and Josh decided yesterday morning to appear
                              on the CBS Early Show, but as the day wore on,
                              Tara become concerned about whether she could do
                              it, and then decided late in the day that she
                              should not at this time.  While Tara has made
                              very large strides in her abilities these past few
                              weeks, she is still aware of and respects her
                              current limitations. 
                               
                              August
                              30, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              6:30 pm 
                              Cancelled!!  
                              The Early Show segment for tomorrow has
                              been cancelled.  Tara is not feeling that she
                              can handle being on television at this time. 
                              We apologize to all of her supporters for the
                              misinformation and to CBS News who worked very diligently to make this
                              happen, especially to Katherine Milofsky.  As
                              reported
                              earlier, Tara and Josh have been trying to
                              establish a routine that will facilitate her
                              ongoing therapy, and at this time, things that are
                              out of the ordinary are stressful. 
                               
                              2:30
                              pm  GOOD
                              NEWS!!!   
                              You will be
                              able to see Tara and Josh interviewed on CBS's
                              Early
                              Show  tomorrow morning, Tuesday, August
                              31st.  The
                              segment featuring Tara and Josh will air sometime
                              between 8:15 am and 8:45 am with the targeted
                              start time being 8:30 am which will air on local
                              CBS stations across the country in each time zone. 
                              CBS is sending a camera crew to Tara's
                              grandfather's home to film
                              Tara and Josh.  The Early Show's anchor will interview them live from New York
                              City. 
                               
                              
                              August 29, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              2:00
                              pm  Tara attended church this morning
                              for the first time since the accident.  She
                              and Josh went to  Calvary
                              Church in Los Gatos, where
                              they net.  Tara says it was wonderful to see
                              many of her friends and to have the ability to
                              thank all those that have supported her and prayed
                              for her recovery.  Both Tara and Josh want to
                              volunteer their time to help with the High School
                              ministry at the church. 
                               
                              We want to acknowledge and thank Lindsay Jones who
                              mentioned us on her website.  Lindsay and her
                              boyfriend Daniel Miller were involved in a car
                              accident on August 1st and is currently paralyzed
                              from the waist down.  You can read here story
                              on her web page at www.caringbridge.com/ar/lindsayjones. 
                              Please remember Lindsay in your prayers.  CaringBridge.org
                              is a not-for-profit organization providing 
                              the oldest, most widely used free online service
                              connecting patients to friends and families. 
                              
                               
                              Tara and Josh are looking forward to returning to
                              a bit of normalcy and enjoying the private joys of newly married life.  They have
                              been deprived of this simple pleasure by the
                              tragic accident, the long hospital stay, and the
                              media exposure of their story, including this
                              website.  They want to and will continue to
                              tell their story because it has inspired so many
                              people, but would like to balance that with their
                              own needs.  Because of this, we may update this website less frequently, and
                              transition to updating it only when there is
                              something important to report.  If you have
                              already signed our guestbook 
                              you will receive an email informing you of any
                              newsworthy events.   As Tara and Josh
                              find time they may also update this website
                              themselves and your reporter up to now will become
                              less involved.  Please continue to check back
                              as frequently as you wish, and we thank everyone
                              for their continued prayers and support. 
                              
                               
                              
                              August 28, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              8:00
                              am  Tara visited her chiropractor yesterday - Dr.
                              Thomas Osborne at Discover
                              Chiropractic.  Dr. Osborne has helped
                              Tara stay healthy for the past eight years. 
                              Tara felt better after
                              getting adjusted for the first time since her body
                              was impacted so severely in the accident. 
                               
                              
                              August 27, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              11:30
                              am  Not much new to report this
                              morning.  Tara
                              and Josh are settling into their new life. 
                              They have received over 550 emails.and
                              guestbook 
                              entries in the past few days.  They are
                              trying spend time reading them. 
                              There are may words of encouragement and
                              hope.  There are also many that contain
                              stories of other people that have been or still
                              are in a coma.  Several emails are from
                              parents or spouses of other coma patients who say
                              that Tara's story has given them renewed hope for
                              their loved one.  There have also been
                              several generous donations to Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  Tara and Josh have
                              also received offers from more television shows to
                              tell their story. 
                               
                              
                              August 26, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara
                              and Josh are settling into their new life. 
                              Tara returns to Santa Clara Valley Medical Center
                              three times a week for therapies and
                              check-ups.   Tara still has a long way
                              to go for a complete recovery, and she is
                              determined to work hard at it.  Tara's father
                              took them to Tara's favorite Los Gatos restaurant,
                              
                              Sushi on the Run, for a celebration dinner last
                              night. 
                               
                              
                              August 25, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              1:00
                              pm  We
                              are truly touched and blessed by the outpouring of
                              love we have received as a result of this
                              morning's interview.  We have had over 400
                              emails and guestbook entries so far today and some
                              donations as well. 
                               
                              8:15
                              am  Tara and Josh really enjoyed
                              doing the interview on ABC's
                              Good
                              Morning America show today.  Here is
                              a link to the story Bride
                              Awakens: Newlywed Wakes from Six-Week Coma to
                              Discover She's Married.  Tara and
                              Josh want to thank the entire staff at Good
                              Morning America for giving them the opportunity to
                              tell their story on national television, with
                              special thanks to Sabina Ghebremedhin for her
                              diligence and thoughtfulness. 
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Thank you for visiting our site
                              and reading our updates.  See the  August 23rd
                              update below for an update on Tara's condition,
                              and the  August 1st update below for a detailed
                              accounting of the accident.  We would like to express our special thanks to all
                              of those that have donated to Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  Please sign our Guestbook
                              if you haven't already.  Thanks to everyone who
                              have sent Tara and Josh messages of hope when signing her
                              guestbook or by
                              email.  
                               
                              August
                              24, 2004 
                               
                              
                              
                              2:15
                              pm  GOOD
                              NEWS!!!   
                              You will be
                              able to see Tara and Josh interviewed on ABC's
                              Good
                              Morning America show tomorrow morning,
                              Wednesday, August 25th.  The
                              segment featuring Tara and Josh will air sometime
                              between 7:55 am and 8:20 am with the targeted
                              start time being 8:05am which will air on local
                              ABC stations across the country in each time zone. 
                              ABC is sending a camera crew to San Jose to film
                              Tara and Josh.  Anchor Robin Roberts will interview them live from New York
                              City. 
                              
                                  
											| 
                                         9:00
                                        am  GOOD
                              NEWS!!!   
                              Tara is
                                        home and she walked out of the hospital
                                        yesterday unassisted.  Tara and
                                        Josh had a relaxing evening last night
                                        in their new home. 
                                         
                              Readers in the San Francisco Bay Area might
                              wish to pick up a copy of today's San
                              Jose Mercury News.  Reporter Yomi S.
                                        Wronge and photographer Joanne Hoyoung
                                        Lee of the
                              San Jose Mercury News did an excellent news article
                                        with many photos on
                              Tara and Josh leaving the hospital titled "New
                                        Memories Await Couple".  Thank
                                        you Yomi and Joanne!  
                                        Tara
                                        and Josh gave a press conference as they
                                        left the hospital.  The local
                                        network television and radio stations
                                        were there to document the occasion. 
                                         
                                        Here are links to stories and
                                        videos.  Thank you to the reporters
                                        and cameramen and photographers. 
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                                              Mercury
                                              New Photograph | 
										 
                               
                              NBC11
                              - KNTV, San Jose 
                              - Woman
                              Who Woke Up From Coma Returns Home 
                              ABC7 - KGO-TV - San Jose - VIDEO
                              - Newlywed
                              Leaves Hospital After Six Week Coma 
 KSL5 -
                              Salt Lake City - Newlywed
                              Injured in Crash Released From Hospital 
                              CBS5 - KPIX - San Francisco - VIDEO
                              - Newlywed
                              Survives Six Week Coma 
                              KUTV-CBS - Salt
                              Lake Cty - VIDEO
                              - Newlywed
                              Injured in Utah Crash Released From the Hospital 
                              
                               
                              
                              August
                              23, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              4:30
                              pm  GOOD
                              NEWS!!!   
                              Tara has
                              been discharged from Santa Clara Valley Medical
                              Center (SCVMC).  Look for her
                              story and an interview with Tara and Josh
                              on your local nightly news stations tonight as all
                              the major media covered her discharge and spoke
                              with her. 
                               
                              What a
                              wonderful belated three-month wedding anniversary
                              present to the couple.  Of the 93 days since
                              they married, Tara has been hospitalized for the
                              entire time but 10 days.  She spent half the
                              time she was hospitalized in a coma.  She
                              spent a little over a month at the University of
                              Utah Hospital and then was transferred by air
                              ambulance to SCVMC in San Jose, CA. 
                               
                              After spending 6 weeks in a coma, Tara said her
                              first words on July 9th and took her first steps
                              on August 2nd.  She has been determined since
                              she woke from her coma to meet her discharge goals
                              and be discharged from the hospital.  Tara
                              has been actively participating in both physical,
                              speech and occupational therapies and will
                              continue to do so on an out-patient basis. 
                               
                              Tara suffers from some short term memory
                              loss.  She still does not remember her
                              wedding, college graduation and many other events
                              that preceded the accident.  She does,
                              however, have excellent recall for people and
                              facts, her speech is excellent and her walking
                              ability is getting stronger every day.  Tara
                              has many scars from the cuts, bruises and burns
                              she suffered.  She will be wearing a special
                              pressure mask for the next nine months for the
                              burns on her forehead  
                               
                              We would like to express our special thanks to all
                              of those that have donated to Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  Tara and Josh had no
                              medical insurance at the time of the accident. 
                              While it appears that Tara may make a full
                              recovery, at this time it is still unknown what
                              the total costs of this accident will be.  We
                              feel extremely blessed that Tara is doing so well
                              at this time.  So far she has recovered
                              further and faster than anyone's expectations. 
                              This is an affidavit of her will and
                              determination, absolutely the best medical care
                              and the power of having thousands of people
                              praying for her.  Thanks to everyone who
                              have sent Tara messages of hope when signing her guestbook. 
                               
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara and Josh had a wonderful
                              time on their "date" yesterday. 
                              Tara said that is was great to get out of the
                              hospital and have a bit of a "normal"
                              life for awhile.  They went to the Spiderman
                              2 movie and dinner at Outback. 
                               
                              August
                              22, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              9:00
                              am  Today is Tara and Josh's three
                              month wedding anniversary.  Tara has an
                              eight-hour day pass to leave the hospital so that
                              she and Josh can go on an anniversary date. 
                              They plan on going to dinner and a movie. 
                              Here are a few more wedding photos to celebrate
                              their anniversary. 
                               
                                           
                                
                               
                              Yesterday afternoon, a Japanese woman named
                              Chizuru who has been following the website visited
                              Tara.  When Chizuru first signed Tara's guestbook
                              we added what she said to out comments
                              page: 
                               
                                   My
                              name, Chizuru, means "1000 cranes" in
                              Japanese, and that is a symbol of "peace and
                              recovery". In Japan, we make 1000 paper
                              cranes to wish a sick person get well.  I
                              personally do not know her but I hope she will
                              recover soon. 
                               
                              Chizuru has made over 400 paper cranes for Tara so
                              far and said a prayer for her with each one. 
                              Tara and Josh and their families are grateful for
                              all those that have prayed for Tara's
                              recovery.  Tara's rapid recovery is a
                              testament to Tara's determination, the power of
                              prayer, and the skills of her medical providers.. 
                               
                               
                              August
                              21, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              9:00
                              am  Nothing new to report this
                              morning.  Tara is doing fine, and her
                              physicians say that her recovery has been
                              remarkable.  We still do not have a
                              definitive discharge date yet.  It seems that
                              there are no openings in the out-patient
                              occupational therapy sessions, but Tara is already
                              scheduled for in-patient occupational
                              therapy.  The hospital staff is working to
                              resolve this. 
                               
                              Josh has been busy trying to organize the cottage
                              to bring Tara home to.   
                               
                              Tomorrow is their three month wedding anniversary,
                              and Tara has a day pass to get out of the
                              hospital.   So, Tara and Josh are going
                              on a date to celebrate their anniversary.  We
                              hope you all have a wonderful weekend. 
                               
                              August
                              20, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              9:15
                              am  On August 12th, Tara took her
                              first outing outside the hospital to a concert in
                              her hometown of Los Gatos.  NBC11 news
                              interviewed her and Josh and have posted a video
                              of Tara on their website titled Woman
                              In Good Spirits After Awakening From Coma. 
                              Click on Tara's picture to view the video. 
                              You may have to hold your Control key while doing
                              so to bypass your pop-up blocker.  Thank you
                              to NBC11 for providing such good coverage of
                              Tara's situation! 
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara is really looking forward to
                              being discharged.  Yesterday, Josh and family
                              and friends moved their belongings into the
                              cottage in back of Tara's grandfather's house
                              where Tara and Josh will be living.  Tara
                              will still have out-patient rehab three times a
                              week.  They had planned to set up their new
                              married life in Colorado, but will be doing it
                              here in California for awhile..  One of
                              Tara's discharge goals was to walk out of the
                              hospital and she is walking so well now that she
                              can do that.  This is only a few weeks after
                              she took her first steps. 
                              August
                              19, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              9:45
                              am  TaraJosh reader Yvonne Linton
                              sent this email today: 
                               
                              Dear
                              Tara, 
                               
                              I'm so glad your recovery has gone so well. You
                              are an Olympic champion in my book. Last night an
                              American gymnast, Paul Hamm, dropped from first
                              place to 12th after a fall on the vault landing.
                              He bounced back to win the gold medal in the men's
                              all around competition, shocking everyone. This
                              reminds me of your amazing comeback. 
                               
                              After a few struggles at home this year, I look to
                              what you have done (and God!!) in a short time and
                              can't help but feel inspired. You remind me to
                              keep perspective and to remain thankful and
                              optimistic. After my faith was rocked over
                              situations I had hoped and prayed for, your
                              recovery renews my faith and belief in what is
                              good and what is God.  You and Josh (and your
                              father in his web entries!) have shown goodness
                              and hope in the midst of a tough situation. I
                              am beginning to think you must be a pretty tough
                              competitor also and I feel sorry for the people
                              you used to play basketball against. I hope you
                              can shoot baskets again and do many more things,
                              one hoop at a time. Congratulations on your
                              pending hospital departure and keep up the great
                              work in rehab!! 
                               
                                    
                              Yvonne Linton 
                              
                               
                              6:15
                              am  Tara had good therapy
                              sessions yesterday.  She says to post the
                              following here from her:  Her physicians are
                              discussing the possibility of discharging her
                              earlier than the August 26th date. 
                               
                              Tara says to post this on the website from
                              her:
                               
                              "Hi everyone.  Thanks so much for
                              visiting this website and thank you for your
                              prayers and support.  I know that it is
                              everyone's prayers that have helped to let me
                              recover so quickly.  I have been reading some
                              of your emails and hope to be able to answer some
                              of them soon.  Thank you, everybody!" 
                               
                              August
                              18, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Josh arrived home from his trip
                              last night, safe and sound.  Both Tara and he
                              had BIG smiles on their faces when they saw each
                              other after the 4 day separation.  Tara is
                              still on track to be discharged on the 26th,
                              although she said tonight that the doctors might
                              even send her home a few days earlier. 
                               
                              We have received several emails from their friends
                              and church members in Colorado who expressed how
                              nice it was to see Josh. 
                               
                              We are still trying to schedule Tara and Josh's
                              appearance on Good Morning America which should
                              happen within the next week.  Keep checking
                              this status page and we will also send out an
                              email once the segment is confirmed.  We
                              apologize for the postponement last week. 
                              Tara and Josh got pre-empted by Hurricane Charley. 
                               
 Yesterday the golf tournament had
                              36 golfers, including Tara's uncle Doug from
                              Arizona and Steve Leonard who drove all the way
                              from Utah.  It was a perfect day for
                              golf.  Early estimates are that the
                              tournament brought in over $5,000 for Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.   Mike Masuda,
                              the Sports
                              & Recreation Ministry Director of Calvary
                              Church
                              who organized the event wrote the following email. 
                               
                              Hi John,  
                              I just wanted to be sure to give you a more
                              complete list of those
                              that helped. I so appreciate them!!! 
                               
                              Melissa Hammond - helped hang posters downtown
                              with Katy West and also spent
                              an entire Saturday putting flyers on cars in the
                              parking lots of Los
                              Gatos Blvd. She was up until past midnight helping
                              organize prizes and stuffing tee prize bags. She
                              and Alicia Price were a big help with the raffle
                              set-up yesterday, while I enjoyed the day of golf. 
                               
                              Barbara Nicewonger - helped get raffle gifts and
                              prizes. Then she and her daughter, Ariana
                              Nicewonger came and helped with registration the
                              day of the tournament. 
                              Karuss Edwards, Lauren
                              McElhatton, Teri Lyall, Sasha DeBriere, Matt
                              Cunningham (some of the bridal party) helped with
                              the raffle. 
                              Christine Lavazza of Mary
                              Kay - Sponsored a gift as well as came out in
                              support and to take pictures for the Los Gatos
                              Weekly. 
                              The Steve Glickman, the
                              mayor of Los Gatos had some great suggestions for
                              contacts and the Vice Mayor, Mike Wasserman made
                              the time to play in the tournament. 
                              Ronee Nassi, Executive
                              Director of the Los Gatos Chamber of Commerce
                              emailed the Los Gatos businesses. 
                              And thanks go to you
                              also, John, for placing the info on the website!! 
                              Thank you to everyone
                              involved! 
                                    
                              God Bless, Miki 
                               
                              And of course, thank you to all the golfers that
                              participated and the sponsors that donated and a
                              very special thank you to Miki for organizing the
                              tournament.  
                               
                              August
                              17, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              
                              6:00
                              am  Yesterday, Josh and Darren
                              journeyed from Colorado to Wendover, Utah, on the
                              border of Nevada, on their trip back to California
                              with Tara and Josh's belongings.  Originally,
                              Tara and Josh were going to set up their married
                              life in Colorado where Josh was a youth minister
                              at
                              Summit Community Church in Highlands Ranch. 
                              The accident in Utah, when they were returning
                              from their honeymoon, took their lives on an
                              unexpected detour. 
                               
                              When Tara is discharged from the hospital next
                              week she will still continue to have out-patient
                              therapies three days a week. 
                               
                              An longtime friend of Tara's visited her today,
                              Lauren Malachek and her mother Karla.  Lauren
                              and Tara used to live only 5 doors apart in Los
                              Gatos.  Tara was thrilled to see her and
                              surprised to find out that Lauren is attending the
                              University of Colorado in Boulder.  Tara and
                              Lauren had only been living about 10 miles apart
                              and did not know it. 
                               
                              August
                              16, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Today, Tara begins what may be
                              her last full week at the hospital.  Her
                              scheduled discharge date is August 26th. 
                               
                              Josh was able to go to church yesterday at the
                              Summit Community Church in Highlands Ranch,
                              Colorado where he was a youth minister.  In
                              the afternoon a party was given where he was able
                              to spend time with friends and the youths that he
                              counseled and ministered.  The U-haul is
                              loaded and so this morning Josh and Darren will
                              begin the drive back to California.  They
                              expect to arrive in California tomorrow evening. 
                               
                              Today
                              is the     at the Santa Teresa Golf
                              Course, 
                              Tee off times begin at 10am.  Good luck to
                              all the golfers.  Have a wonderful time. 
                              . 
                               
                              August
                              15, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              2:00
                              am  Tara had a good day
                              yesterday.   It is wonderful to see her
                              progress, and it is apparent every day that she is
                              improving.  Yesterday she read many of the
                              thousands of emails and guestbook entries that she
                              and Josh have received from this website. 
                              Tara expressed how wonderful it felt to have so
                              many people sending her love and prayers. 
                              She says that it is everyone's prayers that have
                              helped her recover so swiftly. 
                               
                              Tara made a phone call yesterday to Andy Finlay,
                              the gentleman from Utah that used his pickup truck
                              at the scene of the accident to separate Tara's
                              car from the other burning vehicle (see August 1st
                              status update).  Andy saved Tara's life by
                              his action and Tara thanked him for it.  They
                              had a very nice talk and Tara expressed that she
                              hopes to meet Andy in person someday soon. 
                               
                                            
                                
                                          
                              Occupational Therapy                                      Smiling
                              in her burn pressure mask 
                               
                              Tara has occupational therapy every day that
                              focuses on different "every day" life
                              tasks.  Yesterday they went to the work shop
                              and did some crafts. 
                               
                              In the photos above you will see that Tara is
                              wearing a "burn pressure mask".  Tara
                              had second and third degree burns on her forehead,
                              and had a skin graft performed at the University
                              of Utah Hospital.  When skin is burned,
                              collagen in the skin reforms as bundles instead of
                              returning back to the original form of parallel
                              lines.  A pressure mask helps to flatten burn
                              scar tissue as skin heals.  The mask provides
                              precise pressure over the burn scars so that the
                              scars will stay flat as they're healing, and
                              they'll stay soft as they're healing, 
                              The mask is not easy
                              to wear, but it will help to minimize scarring. 
                              Pressure masks are custom fitted and are made to
                              conform to a patient's normal body contours, thus
                              limiting scar formation.  When wearing a
                              facial mask, burn patients must wear the mask for
                              24 hours a day. Patients are advised to only take
                              off the mask while showering and only leave it off
                              for up to 25 minutes after they shower. Wearing a
                              facial burn mask 24 hours a day applies constant
                              pressure on scars and makes them more pliable,
                              less red and less noticeable.  Tara has
                              adjusted very well to wearing her mask, although
                              she says that it is difficult to fall asleep with
                              it on. 
                               
                              Don't
                              forget the    
                              tomorrow.  Tee off times begin at 10am for
                              the Golf Tournament at the Santa Teresa Golf
                              Course, 
                               
                              
                              August
                              14, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              8:30
                              am  Tara had a very good day
                              yesterday.   She is getting better at
                              walking every day.  She is determined that
                              when she leaves the hospital that she will walk
                              out unassisted.  Tara has been calling it
                              "release day," and the nurses remind her
                              that it's not a prison.  So now she is
                              calling it departure day.  Tara's tentative
                              departure day is August 26th. 
                               
                              Josh has left town on an adventure for a few
                              days.  He and his friend Darren are flying to
                              Colorado today where they will pack Tara and
                              Josh's belongings into a U-Haul truck and will
                              drive it back to California.  A special thank
                              you to their friends in Colorado that will see
                              them and help them.   Good luck to Josh
                              on his trip. 
                               
                              There are over 40 golfers signed up to participate
                              in the
                              
                               Golf Tournament 
                              this Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
                              Course, in San Jose, California. If
                              you would like to participate you can still do so
                              by showing up at the golf course.  Tee off
                              times begin at 10am.  Call Miki Masuda at
                              408-828-8514 for details and to reserve a slot 
                               
                              August
                              13, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara had a very good day
                              yesterday.   She did well with her
                              therapies.  We apologize to any of you that
                              did not get the message that the Good Morning
                              America segment had been postponed if you got up
                              early to watch it.  We
                              will keep you posted via a new e as to when it
                              will be rescheduled.  It will probably be
                              Wednesday or Thursday of next week.. 
                               
                              August
                              12, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              10:00
                              am  POSTPONED!!  
                              The Good Morning America segment for tomorrow has
                              been postponed until some time next week.  We
                              will keep you posted via a new email.  The
                              postponement is due to the impending storms
                              hitting the east coast. 
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara had two "off
                              campus" adventures yesterday.  She left
                              the hospital and went to lunch at a Japanese
                              restaurant near the hospital and in the evening
                              went with four other head injury patients to a
                              "Jazz in the Plaza" concert in her
                              hometown of Los Gatos.  She says that it was
                              great to get out and "feel normal". 
                               
                              Readers in the San Francisco Bay Area might
                              wish to pick up a copy of today's San
                              Jose Mercury News.  Reporter Connie Skipitares of the
                              San Jose Mercury News did another excellent news article on
                              Tara and Josh titled "Accident
                              victim has first outing".  Thanks again Connie! 
                               
                              Tara's visit to the concert was covered by
                              reporter Ethan Harp of NBC11-KNTV
                              news during their 11pm broadcast.  Special
                              thanks to Ethan and his cameraman. 
                               
                                            
                                
                                        
                              Happy Couple - August
                              11th                                           
                              Outing in the Park 
                               
                              Don't
                              forget the next   
                              that will take place on Monday, August 16th. 
                              The Golf Tournament will be
                              held on Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
                              Course, in San Jose, California. If
                              you would like
                              more information please e-mail Miki Masuda at MMasuda@calvarylg.com
                              or phone Miki at 408-356-5126, x244.
                                Please tell your avid golfer friends about
                              it and we still need some additional corporate sponsors to sponsor holes
                              for the tournament. 
                               
                              August
                              11, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              3:30
                              pm  Tara walked a lot more today and
                              also stood in place and shot some basketball
                              hoops.  Unfortunately, she was disappointed
                              that she did not make her shots.  Her arm strength still needs a
                              lot of work. 
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara has a good day
                              yesterday.  Typical hard work at her
                              therapies.  Today she might go on a field
                              trip with a few other patients to get out of the
                              hospital for the first time.  We will be
                              sending out an email today about Tara's upcoming
                              TV appearance this coming Friday morning,
                              currently scheduled for  between 7am and 8am
                              on ABC's Good
                              Morning America show.  Please sign our Guestbook
                              if you haven't already to be sure that you are on
                              Tara's email list. 
                               
                              August
                              10, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara has a good day
                              yesterday.  She is walking more and doing
                              better at it.  Several weeks ago Tara was
                              fitted for a special pressure mask which will help
                              the burns on her forehead heal with less
                              scarring.  The mask arrived yesterday. 
                              In order to put pressure on her forehead, it
                              covers much of her face.  She will wear it
                              most of the time for the next nine months. 
                               
                              Here is a special treat for our readers. 
                              Here are some recent
                              photos of Tara.  Enjoy her smile! 
                               
                              You will be able to see Tara and Josh on live
                              television this coming Friday morning (early) on ABC's Good
                              Morning America show.  ABC is sending
                              a camera crew to the hospital to interview Tara
                              and Josh on the show.  We will keep
                              you posted here as to the possible time
                              slot.   
                               
                              August
                              9, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              7:15
                              am  Tara has a good day
                              yesterday.  A day off from therapies. 
                              Tara made a comment about how frustrating it was to
                              have to learn to walk again, when she used to do
                              runway walking when she modeled.  Tara
                              modeled from age 13 to age 16.  Her 6'3"
                              stature made it difficult to get some assignments,
                              but she enjoyed the time she did it and was very
                              good doing the runway walk.  Here is a link
                              to some of Tara's modeling
                              photos.  Tara has several times made
                              the comment that it's a good thing that she is not
                              modeling any longer because she is no longer
                              attractive.  We have assured her that despite
                              the burn scars on her forehead and other scars
                              that she is just as beautiful as ever.  Tara
                              is pleased that she "schooled" the
                              coma.  This
                              week begins another week of intense therapy. 
                               
                              Don't forget the Golf Tournament on Monday, August 16th
                              which is only a week away now. 
                               
                              August
                              8, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              8:30
                              am  Sunday morning, day of
                              rest.   Sunday's are "free"
                              days for Tara.  She has no therapy sessions
                              scheduled.  Josh leaves to attend
                              church.  It is one of the few times when he
                              is away from Tara's side.  Tara is looking
                              forward to being discharged from the hospital so
                              that she can attend church again.  Tara's dad
                              likes the "one on one" time he has with
                              Tara on Sunday mornings.  Nothing new to
                              report this morning.  Have a great day
                              everyone!  . 
                              
                               
                              August
                              7, 2004
                              
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              pm  A physician came in on weekend
                              duty today to see Tara.  He had not seen her
                              for two weeks and was amazed at her
                              progress.  It is amazing to witness.  It
                              is like seeing someone be reborn.  A few
                              weeks ago she could hardly move, now in physical
                              therapy she is walking, not long purposeful
                              strides, but tentative slow steps, yet walking
                              nonetheless.  A week ago she had a shower in
                              a special gurney.  Today she took a shower in
                              a special chair.  She told the physician
                              today that she is determined to get out of the
                              hospital as soon as possible. 
                              
                               
                              10:00
                              am  Tara is doing well and had a good
                              day in with her therapies yesterday.  Tara
                              talks very well and her speech is excellent. 
                              She is still fairly confused about many things and
                              her short term memory is not consistent. 
                              This should improve over time.  Many brain
                              injury patients must rely on day timers to help
                              them with their daily tasks. 
                               
                              August
                              6, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara walked some more several
                              times yesterday.  She is getting more confident
                              with it, and going a bit further each time 
                              Her new knee brace is working much better as it is
                              lighter and smaller.  Tara is still having
                              difficulties with her short-term memory.  The
                              burns on her cheeks, below her eyes, are healing
                              well and the burn across her forehead is making
                              good progress.  We want to thank the many
                              friends that volunteered several weeks ago to sit
                              with Tara when we were concerned about her
                              scratching at her wounds.  It turned out that
                              Tara got past that stage fairly quickly. 
                               
                              The
                              therapists in the Traumatic
                              Brain Injury Rehabilitation Program are
                              outstanding!  They have Tara doing many
                              different types of therapies and they are adept at
                              knowing how far they can "push" her to
                              get results.  Tara is participating in her
                              therapies whole heartedly because she is looking
                              forward to the day that she can be
                              discharged.  Josh is a tremendous support and
                              inspiration for Tara during her sessions. 
                              She has physical, speech and occupational therapy
                              everyday.  It was only little over a month
                              ago when we were concerned about whether Tara
                              would be able to be admitted to a Rehab Center
                              program because the requirement was that she had
                              to be able to actively participate in therapy for 3 hours a
                              day.  Tara's will and determination have
                              shown us that our fears were unfounded. 
                               
                              Media Alert !!! - One week from today,
                              Tara and Josh may be on ABC's Good
                              Morning America show.  We will keep
                              you posted here as to the possible time
                              slot.  All of our readers will be able to
                              tune in and see Tara on live TV.. 
                              Don't
                              forget the next   
                              that will take place on Monday, August 16th. 
                              The Golf Tournament will be
                              held on Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
                              Course, in San Jose, California. If
                              you would like
                              more information please e-mail Miki Masuda at MMasuda@calvarylg.com
                              or phone Miki at 408-356-5126, x244.
                                Please tell you avid golfer friends about
                              it and we still need some additional corporate sponsors to sponsor holes
                              for the tournament. 
                               
                              
                              Side note:  Tara's brother Chris and father
                              John are seeking a one or two bedroom rental in
                              the south bay area.  If you know of one,
                              please let them know via Email
                              with a subject line of Rental.  Thank you! 
                               
                              August
                              5, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:00
                              am  GOOD
                              NEWS!!! 
                              No new
                              update this morning.  We are still too happy
                              that Tara walked yesterday! 
                               
                              General housekeeping:  The status
                              page has been getting larger, and taking more time
                              to download for our dial-up readers, so we have
                              broken the status into monthly reports.  You
                              can click on the links at the top or bottom of the
                              page if you wish to review status reports from
                              previous months.  Please sign our GUESTBOOK
                              if you haven't already. See how you can HELP.  Thank
                              You! 
                               
                              August
                              4, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              4:00
                              pm  GOOD
                              NEWS!!! 
                              Tara walked
                              approximately 50 feet in a hallway today, with her
                              physical therapist in front of her to help in case
                              she needed assistance.  Tara did great! 
                              Good job Tara! 
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara had a good day
                              yesterday.  She had her normal therapy
                              sessions and then participated in the filming of a
                              video for the hospital to document activities in
                              the rehab center.  She did a great job as she
                              was interviewed with her physical therapist and
                              her attending physician.  Tara also received
                              a newer and smaller knee brace.  She needs
                              the brace due to the damage done to her left knee
                              from the accident.  Her older brace rubbed on
                              the donor site on her thigh where the skin graft
                              for the burn on her forehead came from.  The
                              fact that both knees were injured in the accident
                              is slowing Tara's progress towards being able to
                              walk. 
                               
                              The totals are in for the Car Wash and Bake Sale that was
                              held at Calvary Church a week ago.  The
                              tournament was able to raise $3,101.
                              for  Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  Once again, a very special thanks goes to Melissa Hammond
                              who is a member of the High School Group at
                              Calvary Church of Los Gatos for organizing the car wash and bake sale.  Thank
                              you also for all the volunteers who washed cars
                              and baked delicious goodies, and thank you to all
                              those who donated and now have cleaner cars and
                              ate all the baked goodies.  
                               
 August
                              3, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              10:00
                              am  There are some amazing stories on
                              the Rehab floor at Valley Medical.  Each of
                              the patients here has one.   One in
                              particular is Kathleen
                              Davey, who is in a room just three doors
                              down the hall from Tara.  Kathleen had a
                              cardiac arrest on Sat. morning, January 24, around
                              10 a.m.  Her 6–year-old daughter called
                              911.  Police arrived at the house within
                              around 3 minutes of the call and administered
                              CPR.  An EMT unit then arrived and revived
                              her heart with a defibrillator and rushed her to
                              Valley Medical Center in San Jose.  Kathleen
                              has been in a coma since.  Please take a
                              moment to click on Kathleen's
                              website and say a prayer for Kathleen's
                              recovery, and for her husband Mike and daughters
                              Samantha and Rachel.. 
                               
                              6:00
                              am  Tara had a good day
                              yesterday.  When asked what she did, she said
                              that she went swimming and played badminton. 
                              In reality, she played some ping-pong from her
                              wheelchair.  The confusion associated with
                              head injuries often persists for a long time. Tara also
                              had several visitors yesterday from her church and
                              high school, including Julie, Alexia, Amanda and
                              Ashley. 
                               
                              
                              Side note:  Tara's brother Chris and father
                              John are seeking a one or two bedroom rental in
                              the south bay area.  If you know of one,
                              please let them know via Email
                              with a subject line of Rental.  Thank you! 
                                   
                              August
                              2, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              6:30
                              am  Tara had a good day
                              yesterday.  Her nurse Sandra, who has been
                              providing head injury rehab for 18 years, says
                              that Tara is making very good progress.  Tara
                              did not have any therapy sessions, as Sunday is a
                              day of rest at the hospital.  Her father once
                              again explained what happened in the accident (see
                              yesterday's "anniversary" status) and
                              then took her for a long ride in her wheelchair
                              outside the hospital, however, by evening Tara did
                              not remember that he had visited.  It is
                              quite common for head injury patients to have
                              difficulty with short-term memory.  Tara also
                              had several visitors yesterday afternoon. 
                                   
                              The totals are in for the Golf Tournament that was
                              held in Colorado two weeks ago.  The
                              tournament was able to raise $12,328. for Tara's
                              Recovery Fund.  Once again, a very
                              special thanks to organizers Terri and Tim Walsh,
                              the Summit Community Church of Highlands Ranch,
                              Colorado, everyone who volunteered their help and
                              everyone who participated. 
                               
                              Don't
                              forget the next   
                              that will take place 2 weeks from today. 
                              Calvary
                              Church in Los Gatos has
                              organized a Golf Tournament
                              here in Silly.com Valley in order to raise funds for Tara's expenses. 
                              The Golf Tournament will be
                              held on Monday, August 16th at the Santa Teresa Golf
                              Course, in San Jose, California. If
                              you would like
                              more information please e-mail Miki Masuda at MMasuda@calvarylg.com
                              or phone Miki at 408-356-5126, x244.
                                
                               
                              We need some additional corporate sponsors to sponsor holes
                              for the tournament, so please ask your management
                              at work if they would be willing to sponsor a hole
                              and have them give Miki a call.  Miki hopes
                              to find a corporate sponsor for each hole so there
                              can be a sign at each hole. 
                               
                              August
                              1, 2004
                              
                               
                              
                               
                              12:30
                              am  Today is the two-month
                              anniversary of the tragic accident on Interstate
                              15 just south of Salt Lake City.  Tara and
                              Josh were driving home to their new married life
                              in Colorado, after being married ten days before
                              on May 22nd at in
                              California.  Tara was driving southbound in a
                              construction zone in their Suzuki Grand Vitara
                              SUV, having just bypassed the city.  At the
                              same time, Thad Goodman from Taylorsville, Utah
                              was driving his Chevrolet Cavalier northbound on
                              his way home to have lunch with his wife Susan,
                              and their two girls, Hannah, 2 1/2, and Ivy to celebrate
                              Ivy's 6-month birthday.   
                               
 For a yet unknown reason, at
                              about 1pm, Thad lost control of his car, swerved
                              several times and then rolled across the center
                              median of the highway into the southbound
                              lane.  His car was upside down and airborne
                              when it struck Tara and Josh's car.  Click
                              here to see the accident
                              diagram by the Utah Highway Patrol. 
                              Thad was killed on impact and his car exploded
                              creating an inferno with 15 foot flames.  The
                              cars spun and came to a stop with Thad's
                              upside-down burning Calvalier
                              pressed against the passenger side of the Suzuki, trapping Josh in the car.  Josh could not get
                              out through the door.  He saw that Tara was
                              unconscious and pinned in her seat.  Josh
                              punched his way through the partially cracked
                              windshield, fracturing his knuckle, and climbed through the small
                              opening.  He was assisted out of the crushed
                              vehicle by 18 year old Brad Beckstrom, one of the
                              witnesses to the accident.  He cried:
                              "My wife, my wife is trapped."  The
                              wind was blowing the flames from the burning
                              vehicle into Tara's car which also ignited.   
                               
                              Hollywood tells us to run away from a burning
                              vehicle, but several heroic witnesses from other vehicles
                              came to Tara's aid, running towards the fire in
                              order to help. 
                              Linden Curry stopped his 26-wheel, two-tank gas
                              hauler just in time to avoid careening into the
                              crash.  He took two fire extinguishers from
                              his rig and handed one to Brad who used it on the
                              Suzuki while Linden used the other on the
                              Cavalier.  Jeremiah Richards used the water
                              from his cement truck to try to dose the flames. 
                              Realizing that the fire would soon kill Tara, Andy
                              Finlay from Herriman, Utah jumped into his new
                              pick-up truck and drove into the flames to
                              separate Tara's car from the other burning
                              vehicle.  At first, the Suzuki would not
                              move, so Andy backed up and then lightly rammed it and was
                              able to move it about 12 feet away.  The
                              witnesses continued to extinguish the fire on the
                              Suzuki and then worked together to help Tara until
                              the fire department rescue and paramedic teams
                              arrived.   
                               
 The teams had to cut the Suzuki
                              apart in order to extricate Tara who was then
                              flown by emergency helicopter to the University of
                              Utah Hospital.  Josh was taken by ambulance
                              to the hospital where he was treated for a broken
                              collarbone, the fractured knuckle in his hand and
                              multiple bruises.  Tara suffered a head
                              injury, burns to her face, a torn diaphragm,
                              lacerated spleen and kidney, fractured toe, deep
                              lacerations to both of her knees, and multiple
                              cuts and bruises.  Tara remained in a coma
                              for 6 weeks, and is now making a remarkable
                              recovery. 
                               
                              Tara, Josh, their families and friends want to
                              once again thank those that saved Tara and Josh's
                              lives.  Thank you Andy, Brad, Linden and
                              Jeremiah.  Thank you to all the Troopers,
                              Fireman and Paramedics.  Thank you to the
                              physicians and nurses.  Thank you to all who
                              have prayed and all who have generously given
                              financial donations.  Tara is aware of what happened, is
                              grateful to be alive, and hopes to meet her
                              rescuers some day..  
                               
                              If any there were other witnesses to the accident,
                              we would very much like to hear from them by emailing
                              us or signing our guestbook. 
                                     
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